5 Ways to Protect Your Personal Energy In a Relationship: I wanted to mix things up a little bit in this article and share with you how you can protect your personal energy, not only in your relationship with your partner but outside it.
Because the Bible says in Hebrews 5:14
“But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil.”
This article is to let you know who to bring into your life, who to keep in your life, or who to release from your life so that you protect your personal energy.
This is perfect energy that brings you peace.
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It’s important to bear in mind that not everyone you’re involved with should be kept in your life.
This article is very important because I’ll be speaking to you about 5 Ways to Protect Your Personal energy in your relationship so you can owe your peace.
Because whatever you do, your peace is important for you to prosper.
And if you want to succeed at anything in your life if you don’t have peace by protecting your personal energy, you won’t get very far.
1. The first thing to understand to protect your personal energy is to understand what it is.
Because here’s the thing, your personal energy understands the concept of the truth, because it’s an instinctive vibration.
So, if you have a pet, say you have a dog, they will instinctively start barking when they sense something negative.
Just like your pet, you can sense if someone is depleting your personal energy.
And this is the case in every relationship you have — with your partner, friends, co-workers, children, and siblings.
Everyone in your life resonates on a certain level.
When someone walks into a room there is a resignation level, and you can instinctively absorb energy from them and them from you. So, there is an exchange of energy.
Good, bad or ugly.
But the thing is you have to be alive and open to it and own and accept it. It’s about being aware that it’s actually happening.
2. The second thing to understand to protect your personal energy in your relationship is to act on it.
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2. The second thing to understand to protect your personal energy in your relationship is to act on it.
You see you when you become aware of negative energy you are experiencing for example with your partner or anyone you are having a relationship with, and you ignore the signs.
However, these signs are telling you that you’re around the wrong energy it will have negative connotations on your life so you need to understand why you’re not acting on it.
This may be because you think well, this is the way the person is, they have had a difficult time, life has treated them badly, so this is how they react.
So, you accept the negative way they are treating you.
Or it might be that you’ve been in a relationship with the person for so long that you get used to the bad energy they exude, and it becomes a part of your way of life.
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Now back to this article, but the fact is if someone is stealing your peace, or destroying your personal energy you need to find a way to minimize or remove that person from involvement in your life.
This could be difficult especially if their close family members like your parents, or children, and am going to come back to this.
But it’s important to remember that peace is owed to you.
The Bible says for God is not a God of confusion but of peace.
So, if someone is creating confusion in your life by stealing, diminishing, or destroying your powerful personal energy.
Let them go because they are not building your up but reducing you and tearing you down.
3 The third way to protect your personal energy is to stop wanting to be liked by everybody.
This is a big one friends because if you know someone in your life is stealing your peace, robbing you of your positive personal energy, but you still want them to love you, you still want them to like you.
It is never going to happen.
Because you put more effort into winning their affection than you do respect yourself and value your own self-worth.
So, if anyone rejects you, you question their value in your life, not your value.
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You are rejected by people, and you blame yourself for what happened.
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Back to the article, wanting to be liked by everyone affects you even more if your positive personal energy is being destroyed by a close family member such as your children, your parents, or even your co-worker.
In this situation, it can be difficult to escape from them.
However, you have a choice to set personal boundaries to protect your energy and well-being.
You see, you need to understand that you are not obliged to give you personal energy to anyone who is harming you.
So, anyone in your life including your children, or partner’s parents, you can find a way to set boundaries.
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Back to the article, you see when you speak with anyone who is affecting your personal energy you should let them know that you will not tolerate their behaviour.
When you do this tune into your intuition by listening to your inner guide and use it to forge better relationships with whoever it is by speaking the truth to them from the heart.
This will not only help you but when you speak to people in terms they can understand they are much more likely to respect you.
This is the case especially when they believe there is something in it for them.
So, if they believe they will also introduce peace in their own lives and because of this will be able to progress themselves, if they are willing to put their differences behind them.
The issue here is being bold and being prepared to speak your truth in a calm and understanding way.
4. The fourth way to protect your personal energy is to become discerning about your own energy.
Sometimes your own insecurities, resentment, personal beliefs, and insecurities can colour and affect your own energy.
We might be jealous of other people and wrongly perceive someone in a certain way that projects confusion in our own energy.
So, it’s important to question yourself, are the internalizing triggers that make you view life in a negative way and project it onto someone else?
Because that bad energy will be felt by the people you are jealous or resentful of.
So, think about why you feel this way, are they more successful than you, growing in happiness, while your life is in a bad place and you’re unhappy and disappointed?
Yes, well that’s on you, and you need to own your own emotions because you, and you alone are responsible for your own happiness.
If you are losing positive people in your life, it may be because your energy is weighing you down. So, instead of complimenting their wavelength, you are fighting against it.
Check you are resonating on the right level, by introducing positive thoughts. It can be difficult but if you do positive things, it can help you to become more positive.
If you look at my early videos on building your personal power and accepting yourself for who you are it will help you with this. I have put a link down below in the description.
5. The fifth way to protect your personal energy is to be with people who your vibration aligns with.
When this happens, your personal energy will thrive, and you’ll start to become the best version of yourself.
What do I mean by this?
The real you will shine because you get to be you and be celebrated.
You’re not doing anything to change who you are.
You’re not dumbing yourself down or hyping yourself up.
And I like the way www.medium.com put it ‘You have soulful conversations, carry mutual respect, share deep compassion, honour open communication, and hold zero judgments.’
Do note that on the other hand, if negative people are leaving your life this is a good thing because it shows you have outgrown a relationship and evolving.
To keep positive energy peace and light in your life you should always be evolving and honouring yourself.
I hope this article the 5 Ways to Protect Your Personal energy in your relationship will help you to owe your peace.
Know that there are 7.6 billion people in this world. Choose yourself first, and then use your instincts to choose wisely.
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